And I took the wrong Auto...!

It is a real story of mine, a girl who is currently working in a company situated in Hyderabad.

I am sharing this with you all, so that you can alert yourself and your loved ones...!
It was approx 6.20 p.m. and I got late from the office, due to the pending work.
Usually, I leave by 6p.m. and I need to change two buses to reach my place from office.
I took the first bus from the office to one stop called Lakdi ka pool.
I reached there by 6.45p.m. From there I was not getting any bus and I had to purchase one office bag from the store near Lakdi ka pool bus stop ( I used to see that from the bus daily).
So, I thought let's purchase it today itself and then I will go by auto, as it's too late and also the buses were not coming on time that day.
So, I went to the bag shop, purchased the bag of my favorite color.
I was so happily returning back to the bus stop, from where I had to take the auto.
I stopped one auto, asked him to drop on my particular place.
Usually, these auto drivers ask just double the amount and then you need to bargain and so he asked to give me 70rs to drop me till that particular place.

So, I just said like that- "I have just now purchased this bag, therefore I just have this 40rs left. (40rs were just more than enough for just 1.5km) and if you want to drop me then it's fine, else let it be."
So, he agreed on that and asked me to sit.
I always used to wonder why these Hyderabad's girls use to wear scarfs in the evening time too.
That evening I realized why is it so.

It was almost 7p.m. in the auto and that man was asking me the questions like- "where are you working madam", "where do you live" etc. etc. etc.
Each time I was trying to avoid those answers, along with all these shits, he was continuously staring me from the mirror in the auto.
I tried to avoid that too, by shifting to the other side of the auto, while doing so, he also turned his mirror to that particular side. I was feeling insecure after this thing.
I even thought to change the auto, but when I looked outside, it was a road full of traffic.

Suddenly he asked that- "Have you ever went to necklace road (a place in Hyderabad)".
To avoid this thing, I just said that- "No, I never went there, please drop me at the particular place, I have asked for." 
"Then let's go to Necklace road and he started turning towards that side."-He replied.
In a very rude manner I said that- "Bhaiyya I said know that I don't have money, you are dropping me to my place or not".
"Paise nakko madam, free me madam (I will not charge a single penny from you for that)"- He replied.

Fortunately, I got habituated for my way to home in just two days of my office-joining.
So I realized that it is not that way, from where my bus goes. I started shouting but as no one was responding, all were on their way to home in the busy traffic. So I decided to jump from the auto, I took my bag in hand and started taking it outside but instantly he stretch the accelerator and I was just about to fall.
But, then he also got afraid and said to me that- "ok ok madam, dropping you to your place directly."

And I got relieved but decided that as soon as I get down to the auto, I will see his number plate.
And finally my stop came and I asked him to drop right there, I didn't wanted him to see my flat.
I came out of the auto, gave him the money and saw at his number plate, but there was no as such.
He went from there, not only dropping me to that  place, but dropping me in a state where I was full of fear and tears.
I called my room-mate cum Best-friend and told all what has happened to me. I was crying like hell standing alone on the main road. That was the worst incident of my life.

I could not call my parents at that time, because definitely it would have haunted them badly.
Though after few days, I told my Mumma about the incident.
Whose mistake it was. Mine? Who didn't saw the number plate first and sat in the auto or those traffic police' who just ignored that auto without number plate on it.

Whatever it may be...!
I just want you all girls to be the safest of all...!
Don't repeat the same mistake which I did...!
Always see the number plate and make a fake call saying that- Yea mom, I have sat in the auto with XYZ number plate, so at least he will be alert that he can't do any harm to you.  Also, do text somebody in the auto you sat.
If possible don't take the auto after 7p.m., take a cab instead or a public vehicle will be safe either.

I know you miss me too...!

I know you also miss me Maa..!

Being Obstinate, though I've came out to make my career..!

You were right maa, tackling all the stuffs is not easy at all...!

I miss your guidance, I miss sharing the things with you...!


On call I don't express much because I know that you.ll be tensed...!
But, sometimes yearn for the so called "Maa ka pyaar"
Also, I miss mah home, I miss you people a lot...!
One day will make you proud Mumma...!
One day you don't have to work anymore...!
One day u.ll cry in happiness, when u.ll be called on the stage for my honour.
Eagerly waiting for that day to come soon...!
But, I miss you...!
I miss to see you...!
Though you never say that to me but I know, you miss me too...!
Love you Maa...!
Just have some patience and see the turning world...!

An Old Man, teaching the great lessons of the Life...!

When I Went to have coconut water...!
Saw a very old man serving so...!

He was so enthusiastically working that we should learn from him...!

He was about 85years old...!

I was afraid that he should not hurt is hand while doing so...!

As his hands were shivering badly while doing so...!

Instead when one of my friend(whom I went with) directed that please give us the coconut without cream in it...!

While doing so, he got afraid of her and said by directing that please remove your hands from here, else it will hurt you...!
My friend and me looked at each other and smiled...! :)
That Uncle Ji was not having any pain on his face while doing the work, which requires so much of physical strength...!
People usually choose to beg, instead of doing the hard work...!
But, he chose to work instead and didn't bowed down to anyone for his surviving...!
But, we youngsters feel lazy even at the time of waking up in the early morning...!
He has entirely change my life, has gave me a great motivation too. Sooner, I will be trying to upload his video...!
When he can do that much of hard work at an age of 80's then why can't we...!
Being at the age of 20's, we are getting this lazy, we don't want to hard work, we don't want to wake up in the early morning, we don't want to leave our mobile phones for even a minute or two...!
Let's take an oath, by taking him as an inspiration that, when he can do that without having any physical strength, why can't we...!
We're provided with a fit and fine body, which has to taken care by us...!
Let's change the world...!
Let's help every other person to groom further in life...!
Let's do all the good works indeed...!
Before changing others, let's change ourselves...!
And when you get demoralized, just think of that old man, who is just working to feed himself the food of two times...!

NEVER GIVE UP...!

How you're celebrating your Birthday...!

                                      How you're celebrating your Birthday...!
                

 Birthday: As defined, the only day when your mother was happy, when you were crying..!

Birthday: When your mother was the happiest person of the world..!

Birthday: A day when your parents thought; that you will be doing something great in your life...!



Here are some questions:
Today when you're young, do you even bother to talk to your parents on your birthday and giving them the time???
Are you really doing something great in your life, which your parents thought that you will be doing???
Or even are you concerned of what you.ll be doing to make them feel proud???

If the answer is NO, then you should try to find out the reasons that why is it happening?
 
Is it because you're just busy with your friends, having beverages, smoking, drinking and addicted to many more bad habits?

Instead of wasting this much of money on your birthday, don't you think that you would have invested the same somewhere worth it.

At least on your Birthday, you would have thought of sharing the happiness of your parents with people who are in need of.

What about going to an Old-age home, providing them some sweets and good food to eat, along with spending some time with them all. As they don't have their children with them, they all left them alone and threw them out of their houses. Can't you be an idol child for them for an hour at least.

 What about going to an Orphanage, where there are many angels, seeking for the happiness. They don't have parents to fulfill their wishes. They don't have anyone whom they can demand to fulfill their wishes. Can't you provide some happiness for them by at least being with them, playing games with them, distributing some chocolates.
                 People say that money can't buy happiness. But, trust me money is the secondary medium for the happiness of the needy ones. Instead of wasting it on the useless stuffs, use for changing the lives of many, which is getting brutal day by day.
               And why only on birthday, why not on every that day when you're free, why not to spend some time with them and bring smiles to their faces and take their blessings along with you, which will be with you for your lifetime and will bring a lot of positivism in you.
Think once on it and decide yourself where you want to spend your money; on temporary happiness/satisfaction or on permanent happiness/satisfaction.

 

Relationships: Can MAKE you or can SPOIL you

Relationships: Can MAKE you or can SPOIL you

 

Relationships on one side can be said as the blessing from the God’s side to you. This is only possible, if you’re with a right person indeed.

The person: Who loves you, cares for you.

The person: Who in other words is your soul-mate, the one who is just the second you. It’s not like- he/she is just the replica of you, that one can totally be different from you.

The person: With whom the bonding you share is just unbreakable and inseparable.

The person: With whom you feel like you’re just not on this very busy and selfish planet.

The person: Who gives time to you, the one who is always there with you not only in the good time but also in the hard time.

The person: Who will help you in making your good career too, while being very generous.

                      Every step you take forward will be two in number, one is yours and the other one is your partner’s. As, he/she always is a support pillar for you. They not only will live in the present with you but also will have proper future plans regarding the career, family etc.

                     On the other hand, if you’re with a wrong person. Your life tends to become hell. We all have heard the recent case of TV actress Pratyusha Banerjee, who was suffering from the depression and stress, while being in the relationship with the TV actor and producer Rahul Raj Singh. This issue is at the par on the social media these days. When she got to know about the kind of person he is, she would have left him. But, she instead gave her chances on chances to change and that was her biggest mistake. Ultimately, she ended up hers life. You should judge the person at the right time and then should decide that is he/she is a correct match for you. As everything takes time, she would have survived the happiest life, after breaking up with him. But, she didn’t wanted to face this situation and ended up hers life.

                   So, in this case relationship has spoiled not only hers life but also hers mother, family and also have broke the hearts of friends and the big fan following of hers.

It’s all about choosing the right person indeed.

                 If you can’t find one, stay alone instead being with the wrong one because when Good relationships can make your life then bad relationships can spoil too.